Starting a conversation can be a challenge if you are not sure where to start and awkward silences can be uncomfortable. Even if you don't think you have anything to talk about, there are many ways you can engage in deep conversation. Look for common topics that you can talk about and be an active listener so the conversation stays engaging. When you become more comfortable talking to others, you will be able to have a conversation regardless of situation!
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[ Edit ] Start the conversation
- Introduce yourself if you have never met the person before. If you want to talk to a stranger, approach them, make eye contact and smile. Say hello and tell your name so they feel comfortable around you. Offer a handshake so that the other person feels connected to you and more willing to talk. Ask them for their name so that you have a natural lead for a longer conversation. 
- For example, you can say: “Hi, my name is John. It is nice to meet you. "
- You don't have to introduce yourself if you just want to have a relaxed conversation, but it will make people more receptive to you.
- Say something positive to invite others to join mentioning something negative at the beginning of your conversation can make others unwilling to open up and talk to you. Pick up something around you that you really like and smile when you talk to the other person is more likely to open up When you mention what you like, ask them how they feel about it to get them involved. 
- You can say something like: “That dress looks really nice. Where did you get it? "Or" You have a good sense of style. How do you find clothes to wear? "
- Use open-ended questions as much as you can so that the conversation does not end with" yes "or" no. "
- Avoid getting any looks because it could make them uncomfortable and they may not respond well to it.
- Mention the surroundings to start a conversation if you can't think of anything else. If you can't think of a way to go into a conversation, look around where you are and make an observation about something you see – it can be about the weather, a meeting place, other people or an event that is happening. in your conversation so that you seem to be inviting to the other person and you make them more interested in talking to you. 
- For example , you can say, "This is my first time at this cafe. Have you tried anything here?" Or, "I wish the sun would come out today. When is the last time it wasn't cloudy."
- Have a sense of humor when talking. It will make others feel engaged and make your chat more enjoyable.
[ Edit ] Find topics to talk about
- Ask the person what they do for work or school so you can relate to them. Reach out to the person you want to talk to and mention work or school. Ask them what their job means, how long they have been there and ask if they have done anything interesting recently. If they are still in school, ask them what they are studying and what they hope to do when they graduate. 
- Be sure to answer all questions if they ask about your job or education as well.
- Show genuine interest in their job, even if it does not sound most exciting to you. Use it as an opportunity to learn more about the person and the subject.
- Talk about hobbies that you both enjoy learning more about the person. People like to talk about things they are passionate about, so ask the person what they want to do outside work or school and note down any areas that sound interesting to you. See what their favorite hobby is and what they like about it. When they ask you about your hobbies, name everyone who is similar to them first so you can have a conversation about it. If you are interested in one of their hobbies, ask them how they can get involved so you can try it too. 
- For example, you can say something like, "Oh, I've never tried woodworking. What is the best thing you can do for a beginner. ”
- Make sure you don't talk about the other person or just talk about your hobbies. Ask questions about what the other person likes so you can have a good back and forth dialogue.
- Discuss movies, TV shows or books if you want to talk about pop culture. Many people share similar tastes in the media, so talk about new movies or music that you've seen or listened to and measure the other person's interest. Ask them what content they have had lately and let them explain why they like it. If you've both seen or heard the same thing, have a discussion about it and talk about your opinions to keep the conversation going. 
- For example, you might say, "Have you seen the latest Star Wars movie? What did you like about the end?" Or "What music do you like to listen to? a favorite artist that I should check out? "
- Even if you disagree with their opinions, stay positive and say something like" Oh, I've never thought of it that way, but I understand your point. "That way, the other person will still feel engaged with the topic rather than being shot down.
- If you don't know what the other person is talking about, ask them to clarify or explain what is happening so you can get a better understanding of it. It's okay to say "I don't know" if you don't know the media they're discussing.
- Chat about your past experiences if you want to open up to the other person. you feel comfortable with the other person, you can ask about their past or what they want to do in the future. Ask them about fun things that happened to them, what their family is or their goals. Open your own experiences so you can share them and make contact with the other person. 
- For example, you can say something like "Where are you originally from? Did you like that? "Or," What did you want to be when you were growing up? "
- Strangers may find it strange if you ask too much about their personal lives just when you meet them. Only ask deeper questions if you both feel comfortable answering them.
- Never try to" make up "the person or try to impress them, because it can make them uncomfortable and want to leave the conversation.
- Ask the person's opinion about current events to engage them. Look up current events in the news or on social media and mention them to the other person. Have at least 1-2 events that happened over the last week ready so you can pull them out in your conversation. See what they think about the news and ask them how they feel on the topic. to talk about your opinions too because they can ask you the same thing. 
- For example, you could say something like: "Did you hear about the new a music app that just came out? I saw it in the news. ”
[ Edit ] Staying Engaged in the Conversation
- Listen actively to the other person so that you can answer the other person. Remove your phone and focus your attention on the other person while they are talking. Keep in eye contact with them so they know you are paying attention to them and are actively listening to what they are saying. Ask questions based on what they say so to stay involved in the conversation. 
- When they finish the thought, briefly say something they said so they know you were aware of them. For example, if they mentioned getting a new vehicle, you might ask, "What kind of car did you end up driving?"
- Try to avoid thinking about other things while the other person is talking because you might not answer naturally on them when they are ready.
- Use the phrase, "It reminds me of," to the transition to a new topic. If the other person mentions something that you can relate to while talking, use the phrase "It is reminiscent of …" before talking about your topic. This way, you can easily move between multiple topics in a natural way without any awkward breaks in the conversation. Make sure the topics are related in some way to make it a smooth transition so it's easier for the other person to follow. 
- For example, if they mention the nice weather, you can say something like, "It reminds me of the wonderful weather in Hawaii when I visited . Have you been there? "
- Say things when they come to you to keep the conversation exciting. If you have reached something in your head during a random break in the conversation, record it and ask the other person about it. Do not interrupt the other person if you are thinking about something while talking because it is rude. Make sure the topic is not something that makes the other person uncomfortable, otherwise they may not want to continue talking. 
- For example, you can say: “I just remembered a funny news I found online. Want to hear it? ”
- The person may not be as susceptible to a random subject if you have not already spoken to them.
[ Edit ] Tip  If you start a conversation and the other person does not answer or seem uncomfortable, it is okay to leave the conversation if you want.
[ Edit ] Warnings
- Avoid talking about topics where the conversation may be heated, such as politics or religion.
[ Edit ] Related wikiHows
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- Start a telephone conversation
- Start a conversation with new friends
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